改写了一下刷屏的我祝你不幸并痛苦

2017-07-10

美国首席大法官罗伯兹在儿子中学毕业典礼上的演讲被疯传了，只是不知道有几个中学生甚至大学生在传，估计刷屏的都是学生的父母，一群过来人的共鸣吧。我也看了，稍微改写了一下，有点反鸡汤，不知道会不会招骂。

改写文：
你会被不公正地对待，你会无奈地接受不公正，你也许会习惯了不公正，甚至羡慕那些对你不公正的人，想加入其中，然后你会懂得公正的价值，公正需要高价捍卫，也可以卖个好价钱。

你会遭受背叛和欺骗，也许你也会背叛和骗人，你会领悟到忠诚和信任的重要和难得，但是不再苟求忠诚，不再轻信。

你会时常感到孤独，你会知道良朋益友不是人生中的理所当然，人生的很多段路你可能会与人结伴同行，但是大段的路最终还是要独行。

你人生旅途中运气总是有好有坏，除了你自身的努力和奋斗，你终会意识到概率和机遇在人生中扮演的角色，也许有些事就是命中注定，成败就是天意。

你总会有失败的时候，你会知道雪中送炭比锦上添花来的艰难，当你不如意的时候，尽量保持你的风度，维护你的形象，不要让关心你的人担忧，也不让有些人幸灾乐祸。

你会被忽视，你要付出很多的热情和努力才能不被忽视，当你不被忽视的时候，不要忽视那些有激情有梦想的人。

你会经历痛苦和别离，你会明白生命的渺小和无奈，有力量的同情会更有效。

还有很多事都将在生命中必然发生。所谓经验应该是亲身经事之后的体验，知识可以传承，经验却大都要从头再来。所以一代一代人总是往往走过差不多的路，前人就算打上了此路不通的标记，后人往往还是要再走一通。不论说什么，还是要去自己经历。

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附原文：

Now the commencement speakers will typically also wish you good luck and extend good wishes to you. I will not do that, and I’ll tell you why.


From time to time in the years to come, I hope you will be treated unfairly, so that you will come to know the value of justice.

I hope that you will suffer betrayal because that will teach you the importance of loyalty.

Sorry to say, but I hope you will be lonely from time to time so that you don’t take friends for granted.

I wish you bad luck, again, from time to time so that you will be conscious of the role of chance in life and understand that your success is not completely deserved and that the failure of others is not completely deserved either.

And when you lose, as you will from time to time, I hope every now and then, your opponent will gloat over your failure. It is a way for you to understand the importance of sportsmanship.

I hope you’ll be ignored so you know the importance of listening to others, and I hope you will have just enough pain to learn compassion.

Whether I wish these things or not, they’re going to happen.And whether you benefit from them or not will depend upon your ability to see the message in your misfortunes.


译文：
通常，毕业典礼的演讲嘉宾都会祝你们好运并送上祝福。但我不会这样做，让我来告诉你为什么。

在未来的很多年中，我希望你被不公正地对待过，由此你才真正懂得公正的价值。

我希望你遭受背叛，由此你才领悟到忠诚之重要。

抱歉的说，我希望你时常感到孤独，由此你才不会把朋友视为人生中的理所当然。

我祝福你人生旅途中时常运气不佳，由此你才意识到概率和机遇在人生中扮演的角色，进而理解你的成功并不完全是命中注定，而别人的失败也不是天经地义。

当你失败的时候，我希望你的对手会因为你的失败而幸灾乐祸，唯有如此，才能让你意识到有风度的竞争精神之重要。

我祝福你会被忽视，唯有如此，你才会意识到倾听他人的重要性。

我祝福你遭受切肤之痛，唯有如此，才能让你感同身受，从而对别人有同情的理解。

无论我怎么想，这些都将在生命中必然发生。而你能否从中获益，
取决于你是否能从你的不幸中领悟到想要传递给你的信息。

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